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Here is a list of things we do at the beginning of our meetings. This applies to zoom and in person meetings.

  1. Engage any new people directly as they arrive, get their names
  2. At the meeting start, welcome everyone and remind people that this is a safe space.
  3. Mention this is for discussing our power dynamic relationships
  4. Creeper watch. Private message me if anyone acts creepy or private messages you etc. I will be happy to ban anyone you ask me too. 
  5. Make space take space. 
  6. Family feel for newbies and regulars. Not forced to speak. 
  7. Encourage note taking, mention notebooks and pens. Hand out paper and pens if necessary.
  8. Mention website and fetlife group and subscribing to meeting@sfdsdg.org
  9. Confidentiality policy stays within your dynamic
  10. Raise hand for inclusion in the queue
  11. Point of clarification hand raise
  12. Mention cost and envelope
  13. Silence phones
  14. Announcements
  15. Show book and pass it around
  16. Mention opening lens concept (didn’t learn much about each other without it)
  17. Instructions about saying name and a little about self
  18. Read opening lens topic

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